I mentioned early this week that the toils of having a 15 year-old son in the house is teaching me a lot about mercy, and grace, and that I would tell more about that later. Here’s the later. Hope it’s worth the wait! (it was a whole day!)
Any of you who are parents have experienced those days when your children take you to the edge, either through behaviors, or ( in most cases) attitudes. I have discovered it is in those times where once you regain you right mind great opportunities for growth are to be found. In those instances we can understand so much about our relationship with God. Try this on.
You as a parent tell your child to do X or probably Y will happen. He doesn’t. Tomorrow, you tell you child to do X and remind him about Y. He doesn’t. And the next day and the next day and the next day. And then finally Y occurs, and your child is absolutely stunned and upset. And blames you!
I hope that sounds familiar to two of your relationships. ( in case that is confusing, I am talking about you as a parent and you as a child of God.)
But what happens next is the most confusing and where the lesson really is.
As a parent, you love them anyway. You offer them grace and mercy, and forgiveness, because you want them to be successful.
37 But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, 39 nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8
Hm.. That probably wasn’t worth that wait, but I hope you that are parents consider how your parental relationship can teach you about how God is and that you can use that to emulate both as a child and as a parent!